Mr. Rogers



The words “a beautiful day in the neighborhood” cannot be said in my mind - they must be sung.  Like so many children, Mr. Rogers’ Neighborhood enchanted me.  Now, both the adult and child in me are excited for the upcoming movie A Beautiful Day In The Neighborhood.  (Catch the trailer here.)

I also came across an interesting article regarding Fred Rogers’ approach to talking with children, Mr. Rogers Had a Simple Set of Rules for Talking to Children from The Atlantic.  As a mother and aspiring author, I love the following sequence of thought on “Freddish” (i.e. his special way of speaking with children):

”Per the pamphlet, there were nine steps for translating into Freddish:
  1. “State the idea you wish to express as clearly as possible, and in terms preschoolers can understand.” Example: It is dangerous to play in the street. ​​​​​​
  2. “Rephrase in a positive manner,” as in It is good to play where it is safe.
  3. “Rephrase the idea, bearing in mind that preschoolers cannot yet make subtle distinctions and need to be redirected to authorities they trust.” As in, “Ask your parents where it is safe to play.”
  4. “Rephrase your idea to eliminate all elements that could be considered prescriptive, directive, or instructive.” In the example, that’d mean getting rid of “ask”: Your parents will tell you where it is safe to play.
  5. “Rephrase any element that suggests certainty.” That’d be “will”: Your parents can tell you where it is safe to play.
  6. “Rephrase your idea to eliminate any element that may not apply to all children.” Not all children know their parents, so: Your favorite grown-ups can tell you where it is safe to play.
  7. “Add a simple motivational idea that gives preschoolers a reason to follow your advice.” Perhaps: Your favorite grown-ups can tell you where it is safe to play. It is good to listen to them.
  8. “Rephrase your new statement, repeating the first step.” “Good” represents a value judgment, so: Your favorite grown-ups can tell you where it is safe to play. It is important to try to listen to them.
  9. “Rephrase your idea a final time, relating it to some phase of development a preschooler can understand.” Maybe: Your favorite grown-ups can tell you where it is safe to play. It is important to try to listen to them, and listening is an important part of growing.”
If only we could all speak to children as easily as Mr. Rogers and make it look so good.




Need to binge on a few old re-runs?  Looks like many are available on YouTube!





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